Monday, March 4, 2013

True Love Waits 2013

My final week working at the chapel was a hectic one because we were concluding our third annual True Love Waits series and preparing for the commitment banquet and ceremony that Saturday. This year, TLW was a little different because we decided to open it up to the catholic students as well. This was a great opportunity to work together as the body of Christ. But it did make planning an eccumenical service a bit of a challenge. Thankfully, everything came together beautifully, and I got to enjoy watching some of our students apply their faith in a powerful way, one last time. =^)

Since the event fell just after Valentine's Day, we went with a red and white theme
Me and my fellow Club Beyond leaders, Victoria (Catholic Youth) and Beth (Club Beyond Coordinator)
The Jantz Family, who we are very close to, celebrated their younger daughter Deborah's commitment!
All of the students lined up to receive their gifts from Dave and Beth
Dave and Beth (our CB coordinators) are also very musically gifted and led the worship
Victoria and I giving some opening remarks and congratulating the students
After each family signed a certificate commemorating the commitment, the girls received a purity ring!
The most touching things at these ceremonies is definitely seeing the families making this commitment together and prayng publically over their children

What a pleasure! I love these students and am so proud of the counter cultural commitment they chose to publically make that day.

Claire's Visit to Japan!

James and I were very excited that our sister-in-law Claire decided to hop over from Osan and visit for a week before we left Japan. She and Jon were stationed in Misawa before we arrived and so she still has friends and several favorite shops and restaurants that she wanted to visit. More importantly, she wanted to be there for my baby shower, which was really special!!

Unfortunately, since her visit coincided with my last big work week and immediately preceeded our move, James and I were really busy and unable to host her in our house. So Claire stayed with our good friend Laurie Clark, who lives just across the street. The Clarks and (other) Wentzels went through pilot training together and have been good friends ever since. It was such a blessing to have someone willing to hang out with Claire and drive her around when we were too busy.

Hectic schedule aside, it was really great having her here right at the end of our time in Japan because she introduced us to several restaurants we had always heard of but never tried. It gave us the incentive to get out the gate and make the most of our final weeks. She was also a big help on those days when I was too busy to clean or cook. Sometimes having family around to lend a helping hand is just what the doctor ordered!

First meal - Sapporo Ramen with Laurie. The homemade noodles were delicious!!
It only took us 3 years, but James and I can finally say we have stopped at the egg vending machine. Yes, everything comes in vending machines here.
Claire went with me to my final Misawa Officer's Spouses' Club meeting. The theme was Mardi Gras
Me with some of my fellow Samurai MOSC members
Being officially farewelled
Claire volunteered to be dressed as our table's Mardi Gras Queen. We were given a bag of strange items and only had 10 minutes to turn them into a Mardi Gras outfit. One of the items was a roll of toilet paper. We named her queen Charmin, the Ultra Soft.
All of the different contestants. I thought Claire was the most chic. Too bad she didn't win.
On Friday, we drove to the near by town of Towada and had lunch at a beautiful organic restaurant right next to a blueberry patch with Claire's good Japanese friend Emiko. We all sat on the floor around a giant table made of old doors and enjoyed a very Japanese meal. It was a great final experience in Japan!


Traditional basket lunch - beautiful presentation, often strange flavors

Claire and Emiko displaying the gift Claire presented to her friend. The photo was taken on one of their adventures!
Me and my good friends, enjoying some final quality time together


The final big thing Claire did while in town was attend my baby shower, but I'll save all those photos for a separate post. =^) It was hard to see her go on Monday morning, but thankfully the good bye was only temporary. She and Jon will be in California when we stop through to visit family on our way to SOS!! More fun family reunions ahead!

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Lenten Lunches

During the season of Lent, the chapel has decided to have a weekly luncheon on Wednesday where lay people from the parish give a short talk based on Jesus' final sermon during the last supper. They gave me the honor of kicking the series off this afternoon by speaking on John 14:1-14. I know many of you enjoy reading transcripts of some of my lessons, so I thought I'd post this one here. Praying the Lord speaks to you and draws you closer to Him during this Lenten season!

Lenten Lunch - Wed. February 20th
John 14:1-14 “Jesus is the Way to the Father”

Welcome, Open in Prayer, Introduce Myself
I am the protestant youth coordinator. Or, at least, I will be till the end of next week. I’ve enjoyed serving the youth, young adults, and women of the chapel for the past three years, but our time is up and we will be PCSing in less than 2 weeks.

I’m sure all of you can relate to the chaos that my husband and I have experienced recently as we’ve been preparing for another overseas move. We know for sure that we will be leaving Misawa on the March 5th Patriot, but other than that, nothing else really seems to be set in stone… We still have no orders, no pack out date, no place to stay after we move out of our house, and aside from knowing what country and base we’re heading to, we know nothing about where we’ll be living, what car we’ll be driving, or what our life will look like over there.

In many ways, I love our military lifestyle. But there is no denying that it can be stressful. We are not in control of what lies ahead in our futures. I guess that’s true of all people, but we’re kind of hyper-aware of that in the military.

Raise your hand for me if you know for sure where you’ll be and what you’ll be doing ten years from now? Twenty? We could be literally anywhere in the world doing who knows what? I don’t know if many of you are like me and really struggle with things being up in the air because you’re a planner and like to know what’s coming so you can be prepared?

I think, to some extent, we are all longing for security and stability and a clear vision of what lies ahead. Especially when things get rough, or God throws us a major curve-ball, we need the comfort and reassurance that it’s all going to be OK.

Context:
That’s kind of where we find the disciples at the beginning of the passage we’re going to take a look at today. If you have a Bible and would like to turn with me to John 14, please do.

To give you a little context here, Jesus and the disciples are all gathered in the upper room for the last supper. We’re about half-way through John’s account of what happened there. Over the course of the next several weeks during these Lenten lunches, we will be taking a look at Jesus’ final sermon before his arrest and crucifixion. Immediately before he launches into this speech, though, He really threw the disciples for a loop. They thought they were sitting down to enjoy the passover feast, when all the sudden Jesus Predicts Judas’ Betrayal (13:21), tells them he’s leaving and going somewhere they can’t follow (13:33), and then predicts Peter’s denial (13:38). I imagine the atmosphere in the room was one of shocked confusion and fear. The group, that has been through so much together, has just been rocked to its core. As bad as that news was, Jesus knows stuff is going to get a lot worse before it gets better. He knows exactly what’s coming in the course of the next several hours - how He will be arrested, beaten, tried as a criminal, and killed. He also knows how the disciples will suffer and be tested. But, thank God, he does not leave it at that. No, He graciously opens today’s key scripture with some powerful words of comfort.

Read John 14:1-14 (NIV)
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God[a]; believe also in me. 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. 4 You know the way to the place where I am going.”
5 Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?”
6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. 7 If you really know me, you will know[b] my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.”
8 Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.”
9 Jesus answered: “Don’t you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? 10 Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you I do not speak on my own authority. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. 11 Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the works themselves. 12 Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.
Basically, he’s saying - “Hey, I know things are hard now, but just wait! I am going to prepare a place for you in my father’s house in heaven, and I’ve already provided a way for you to follow me there.”

They don’t really get it and so He spells it all out for them. Ultimately, His main point is found in v. 6 where Jesus says “I am the way, the truth, and the life…” and unless we know Him and are a child of God by faith, we will miss out on the amazing future He’s prepared for those He loves. V.6 is a pretty well-known verse and something that’s pretty easy to remember, so we’re going to use this statement as a framework to dissect our first “Lenten lesson” That way, later on when someone asks you what you learned today, essentially all you need to remember is “Jesus is the WAY, the TRUTH, and the LIFE.”

JESUS IS… THE WAY
As we said earlier, we all long for stability, security, peace of mind, hope for a brighter future
Jesus knows that the disciples have hard times ahead, but He begins to comfort them by reminding them that this fight has already been won. He’s got this. If they can just trust in Him, the man they know - the man who fed 5,000 and walked on water and calmed the storm and raised the dead to life - and believe that He loves them and has a plan - they have no need to fear for the future.

How can they do that? By looking at the big picture. In John 16:33, Jesus says - “I have told you these things so that you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” If we are able to trust and believe in Him, no matter what happens, no matter what might happen, even when we have no idea what the future holds,  there is a reward waiting in heaven. If we’ve given our lives to Christ and live in relationship with Him, then we have a guaranteed “in” to a peaceful, joyful, pain-free, glorious eternity with our Maker.

Even better - what He’s promising is not just a “get out of hell free card” that gets us through the pearly gates, at which point we’ll kind of have to fend for ourselves. No - Jesus says He’s going ahead to prepare a space in His father’s house for YOU. This is a blessing we cannot even comprehend. As it says in 1 Corinthians 2:9: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.” We are not only saved, but adopted children of God. He knows us and loves us and has prepared a perfect place for us in His house. He makes this promise, not only to the disciples who walked with him, but to all who know Him. Which means that, as we sit around enjoying our soup and salad here, we could imagine that we are sitting around the table with Jesus there in the upper room, because He is speaking these words directly to us.

JESUS IS...THE TRUTH
So, we can be comforted in the middle of the uncertainty and difficulty of our earthly lives because we know that Jesus has prepared a place for those who love Him in heaven... but how do we find the way? In v.5 & 8, the disciples are still a little confused about where Jesus’ father’s house is. “OK, so this all sounds great - but practically speaking: where exactly are you going and how do we follow you there? Can you maybe draw us a map or something?”

Jesus answers their questions by saying: “I am the way, the truth, and the life… If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him.” Jesus and the Father are One. God reveals Himself to us through His Son - and so every Word Jesus spoke, every act, every miracle, every parable has been given to us as a way of knowing God. We may not understand how the process of getting from earth to heaven works - how our souls go from being locked inside our bodies to floating upward through the pearly gates. But that’s not our concern. Again, in v.3 - Jesus tells us He’ll take care of that. He’ll make sure we get to where we’re headed. All we need to do, is focus on knowing Jesus. Knowing His truth and following it.

This isn’t just knowing that Jesus exists and that he’s the Son of God. That’s not what Jesus is talking about here. As it says in James 2:19: “You may say you have faith, for you believe that there is one God. Good for you! Even the demons believe this, and they tremble in terror.” The kind of “Knowing” Jesus is talking about here refers to a personal relationship. Like, I could say that I know Barak Obama, cuz he’s the President and I’ve heard some of his speeches and know something about his life and family… But I don’t know him… If I were to walk up to the White House and knock on the door, I don’t think they’d let me in because we’re not tight like that, know what I’m saying?
If we know Jesus, it means we have a relationship with Him. We can communicate with Him. He is an important part of our life and walks with us daily. And when we arrive in heaven, He will personally invite us in.

JESUS IS… THE LIFE
A relationship with Jesus is the key to true life - lived joyfully, with purpose - both here on earth and for all eternity in heaven. It says toward the end of this passage in John that, if we know Jesus, we will not only know the Father and receive a place in heaven, but we will be able to perform many of the same wonders that Jesus did while here on earth. But in order for that to happen, they had to walk through all of the rough stuff Jesus had warned them about. He had to die on the cross and pay the price for our sins, then rise again from the dead and join His father in Heaven so that He could send us the Holy Spirit.

Now that that has been accomplished, we are all set:
  1. We have His promises to stand on in hard times - that He has provided a way for us to join Him in heaven one day.
  2. We have His truth to help us know Him intimately and walk in the way He has called us to until the end of our days. His TRUTH is that roadmap the disciples were asking for - the way to truly KNOW Jesus and KNOW how to find the way to eternal life.
  3. We have His Spirit dwelling inside of us, every day, providing us with 24/7 access to the Father so we can live life to the fullest every day.
He loves us. And He’s given us the way to the father. It’s in a relationship with Christ. And so my question for you today is: Do you know Him?

How well do you know Him? Is he like Barak Obama to you (kind of a distant figure that you know of but you may have mixed feelings about him and certainly can’t claim to have a personal relationship with him)?, or is he like one of the chaplains here who you look up to and enjoy learning from, but you really only interact with him on Sundays or maybe at special programs?, Or is he like your best friend, a family member, someone you love and depend on and cherish? Someone you can’t imagine living life without? Someone you know so well that you’re not ashamed to tell anyone on the street that you’re in a relationship with him?

That’s the goal - to KNOW Him - so much so that His words become your words, and His heart guides your heart, and His spirit is what keeps you going from day to day. His glory is all that matters.

Because if you don’t know Him - you run the risk of missing out on all the blessings He has in store for us. Because, as Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life - no one comes to the Father except through me.”

If you don’t know Him, or you’re not sure where you stand there, I’d invite you to pray and ask Him to reveal Himself to you. Seek Him out, talk to me or one of the leaders or chaplains here and seek out the Truth. This life is not easy, and too often we are plagued with uncertainty, instability and hard times. But if we know Him - He will give us a life truly worth living, both here and for all eternity.

The Farewells Begin...

Whether or not we're ready to start saying good bye to friends, time is running short and forcing our hand. We have really enjoyed having our great friends Ryan and Lacey Worrell here in Misawa with us for the last year. In addition to little road trips and parties, we've been blessed with their fellowship in our Sunday night couple's Bible study. But Ryan was just certified as the new PACAF Demo Pilot and is leaving this week for a big demo trip to Australia. Lacey plans to join him after helping host my baby shower on Saturday. So we made a point of spending some quality time together this past weekend in order to say "see you later".

First we went on a double date to the Thai restaurant in town. SO good. Ryan had never been there before and didn't believe us when we warned him how spicy the food was. So he ordered his pad thai with "medium" spice and ended up sweating bullets through the whole meal. He insisted it still tasted good but I didn't envy him the belly ache he'd likely have later.


After dinner we went back to their place and they introduced us to a fun card game called Munchkin. This felt like such a normal night out with friends that I didn't get emotional at all. I don't think the fact that we're leaving in less than two weeks has really set in yet. But at least we can say we got that quality time in and snapped a few photos for the memory books!! Hoping we'll be stationed together again in the future!

Hakodate - Winter Wonderland

Rather than returning immediately from Sapporo after we'd had our fill of the snow festival, we decided to stop half-way home and spend a full day and night in our favorite Japanese city: Hakodate. We visited once before over the fourth of July. But it was fun seeing the city blanketed in white, puffy snow. We didn't really have a set agenda for our stay here. It was too cold to do much walking and sight-seeing. So we mostly relaxed, ate, and shopped. I was able to find nice Japanese thank you gifts for the hostesses of my baby shower. We also got to enjoy some quality R&R in the two story Starbucks right on the water. It was a very relaxing trip!

Our hotel overlooking the red brick warehouse shopping district
First stop: lunch at a familiar European fusion restaurant
James enjoying his lambchops
DELICIOUS margherita pizza made by drizzling pesto over a cheese pizza.
The red brick warehouses where we did all our shopping
Our favorite Starbucks in the world. No joke. So fun!
The squid is kind of the mascot of Hakodate. How cute is this!
Relaxing

That night we went to dinner at the Hakodate Beer Restaurant. Unfortunately, they did not allow cameras inside because they had their brewing process out on display in the center of the restaurant floor. But we enjoyed a delicious mutton stir fry while being serenaded by a live piano player. Very classy.

The next morning, we woke up to clear skies and a good view of the city beside the water. We packed up, enjoyed a Western breakfast at Starbucks, and then took the train home. Over all, we really enjoyed our trip and returned refreshed and ready to tackle this moving business...

Their Starbucks sells real banana pancakes!! Crazy!

Sapporo Snow Festival: Day 2

Our second day in Sapporo was a very snowy one. Every time we stepped outside we got so covered in powder, we would have to thoroughly brush ourselves off before stepping back inside. Otherwise our clothes would have been totally soaked and we'd have left puddles behind. The bad weather forced us to cancel some of our more adventurous plans. But that's OK. We found plenty of fun things to keep us occupied. Namely - chocolate and ramen!

There is a chocolate factory in Sapporo where you can take a plant tour, then sample some of their delicious creations. Like many things in Sapporo, the factory was fashioned to look more like a European than Japanese building. The fixtures on the inside of the factory were beautiful! But the confections definitely stole the show...

Entry to the factory tour
workers busy making their famous vanilla and white chocolate sandwich cookies
After the factory tour, we ended up in the chocolate cafe where we sampled some of their decadent hot chocolate. James got white chocolate with a raspberry sauce. Mine was traditional milk chocolate but came with orange liquor that supposedly bumped up the flavor. We also got some outrageously rich chocolate fondue. Fun early Valentines date!


After we left the restaurant, we made our way to the candy shops where I picked up some fun favors for my baby shower. It was a little difficult to control myself in there... Everything looked so good!


After eating all of that chocolate, we definitely needed a nap. So we made our way back to the hotel and rested for a spell. (I may or may not have stopped for some chicken nuggets on the way to hold me over till dinner. I blame the baby! ;^)

That night we went back to the main drag and took the elevator up to the top of the TV tower to survey the festival from above. Impressive views!


After that, we walked through some of the famous underground malls on our way to Sapporo's best-known secret: Ramen Alley! This little tiny alleyway is easy to miss if you don't know it's there. But during mealtimes, it's packed with people waiting in line outside of their favorite ramen shop. These little eateries each only seat 5-15 people, and have quite a history. We had no idea which one to choose, so eventually went with one with a short line and some cute bears on the sign. Turns out it was a good pick. BEST RAMEN EVER! Plus, the hot broth and dumplings hit the spot after walking in the snow for so long.

very narrow alley
butter corn noodles. Love the bear printed on the seaweed
not only were the noodles yummy, but their gyoza (pork dumplings) were fantastic!

After our late dinner, we went back to the hotel to rest and pack for the final leg of our journey. On to Hakodate!