Thursday, May 31, 2012

Aloha, Hawaii!

The time had finally arrived for our anniversary/pre-deployment trip to Hawaii! We had a crazy week of work. I scrambled to finish everything up, clean the house and pack. Then with a great sigh of relief, it was off to the train station on a Tuesday afternoon. The four hour train ride to Tokyo was a welcome opportunity to unplug my brain and catch up on my fun reading. =^) Thankfully, all of our travel went smoothly. Before we knew it, the plane was hovering low over bright turquoise water and bright green palm trees. ALOHA, HAWAII!

Our good friends Bobby and Melissa Scott have been stationed at Hickam AFB on Oahu for the last two and a half years. The opportunity to visit them played a big part in choosing Hawaii as our next travel destination. Melissa and I have been good friends since the first grade and were bridesmaids in each other's weddings. Since I last saw her, she and Bobby had a beautiful baby girl named Savannah. I couldn't wait to meet her! They were there waiting for us at the airport bright and early with two fresh flower lei's. This traditional Hawaiian greeting costs tourists $25. It was much more meaningful coming from a friend. What a wonderful welcome into paradise!

After we picked up our rental car, we met Melissa for breakfast at a cute restaurant on base. It was right on the channel leading into Pearl Harbor, so we got to watch the ships pass by while munching on omlettes and fresh fruit.

Once satified with our first of many American breakfasts, we made the customary pilgrimage to the Hickam BX, the BXtra (yes, they have two BX'es). Then we took a brief break for lunch and a nap on the Scott's couch before continueing our shopping extravaganza at Target and the Navy Exchange. Really, we should have just started there. The NEX is MASSIVE - practically a mall in and of itself. They have a huge selection of desirable itmes, especially name-brand clothing, and accessories, electronics, etc. I guess it pays to have a general stationed at your base. Wandering around in there was overwhelming! We went a little crazy, stocking up on things we can't get in Japan, plus a few necessary items for our vacation. James got some new clothes, I got a few swim suits, a beach bag and a sun hat.

The shopping was fun. But by the end of the day the jet lag was getting the best of me. I was exhausted and starving and tired and really wanted to get some sun but knew with traffic we wouldn't make it to the hotel in time... It was ugly. But my patient husband managed to navigate the Waikiki rush hour traffic with no problem, got us checked in at the Hale Koa, and took me out to the Yardhouse (one of our favorite restaurant haunts in Phoenix) for a fantastic meal. After we ate, I perked up again and was able to savor a long walk down the beach at sunset. The weather was perfect, the scenery was picturesque to say the least, and I was hand-in-hand with my love - walking, with no particular place to go, no timeline... Fantastic first night in paradise!

The next day we slept in, enjoyed a late brunch, and then walked around a nice outdoor mall and finished up our shopping. The big purchase that day were some new glasses and prescription sunglasses for me. Soon after that, our credit card company called to say they thought our card had been stolen... Hahaha. We must confuse them terribly. Hopping all over the world and making strange and extravagant purchases in various countries... it definitely looks fishy to someone outside of the military community. =^)

Shopping has always been tiring work for me, so we slowed down and whiled away the rest of the afternoon by the pool with some delicious fruity drinks and a good book. The Hale Koa has two beautiful pools, plus a "barefoot bar" with live music at night, right by their stretch of Waikiki beach. We spent a lot of time out there in the afternoons, relaxing and enjoying the sunshine. After the winter we've had, I can't tell you what a difference that vitamin D made. The warmth and sunshine definitely lifted our spirits!


That night, Bobby and Melissa took us out to dinner at their favorite restaurant in China Town. Then we hung out on the beach and watched little Savannah dance with her shadow until it was time for them to head home. The night was still young, so James and I went to see The Avengers in 3-D. Movies always take FOREVER to come out in Miawa so we were excited to see this major blockbuster a week or two earlier than we normally would have been able to.


After a couple of lazy days and extravagant meals, we needed some exercise. So we got up early the next day and hiked up Diamondhead Crater. The trails, switchbacks and concrete staircases leading up to the summit were crowded with tourists - many of whom were climbing in flip-flops, which doesn't make sense to me. But the views of the island along the way made the effort and crowds worthwhile.

Our destination.
Almost there! Look at the color of that water!
At the summit, overlooking Waikiki.
What a view!
Since we had some exercise that morning, we figured we could justify a big meal that evening. Last year, when James was in Hawaii for a conference, he and his friend discovered a restaurant called BLT Steak that, they claim, serves the best steak they've ever had in their entire lives. I've heard about this steak, over and over again, for the last year. So this was more than a meal - it was a pilgrimage for his tastebuds.


I'll admit - I was a bit sceptical. I figured he'd built this steak up so much in his mind that the real thing could never measure up to the memory. But, in spite of my reservations and the remarkably steep pricetag, I looked forward to a special evening out with my hubby. Lucky for me - he was 100% right about this place. The atmosphere was fun, the service was impeccable, and the food - oh, the food!

The meal began with a couple of massive, fresh popovers and grated mozzerella cheese mixed with seasalt and herbs. For an appetizer, we ordered the simple "mixed vegetable salad." After a couple bites of these intraductory courses, I was sold. BEST - SALAD - EVER. Then the main event arrived. The steak lived up the hype and came with a plethora of unneccesary sauces for our dipping pleasure. We also ordered a couple of veggie side dishes to share. This restaurant was unique because it was gourmet family style food - meant to be shared.

He could barely wait for me to snap a photo of his food before he dove in.

At this point, we were STUFFED. But if we were going to spurge that night - we were going to do the thing right. So, I insisted we order dessert. We got a butterscotch and almond brownie with ice cream to share. It was sinfully good - which was an appropriate end to just such a decadent meal. I can't say that this dinner was my favorite meal ever. That would probably be a homecooked meal by my grandmother... But as far as restaurant fare goes, this was hands-down the best food I've ever had. If you're ever in Waikiki, DEFINITELY check it out!


On Friday night, we had reservations at the Turtle Bay Resort on the north shore. But before driving north, we toured the hostoric sites at Pearl Harbor. I was really looking forward to this. I even checked out a book from the library about the attack on Pearl Harbor so I could brush up on my history. Our tour guides did a good job of summarizing what happened on the "Day that will Live in Infamy." But I'm glad I had that background to lend some weight to what we were seeing.

Our first stop was the U.S.S. Missouri. Japan signed their surrender to the U.S. on board this ship, ending WWII. I was in awe, standing where such a major event in our nation's history occurred. But aside from a deeper understanding of WWII, I also gained a greater appreciation for the navy. I've never been near, let alone on a real battleship before. Our guide explained what all of the weaponry on board can do and what this vessel is capable of. I must say, I am impressed. I don't envy anyone on the receiving end of a blast from those massive guns...
Approaching the U.S.S. Missouri

We wandered around on board until it was our turn to visit the U.S.S. Arizona Memorial. After a cinematic summary of the events of December 7, 1941, a boat took us out to the memorial site. It's a beautiful open-air monument with cut outs in the side and floor that allow tourists a glimpse of the ghost ship resting just beneath the surface. Part of the ship sticks up above the water, but the rest is concealed in the shadowy depths. It's crazy that you can stand there and watch as oil still leaks from the ship below.
James in front of the part of the ship sticking up above the water
Shadows of the ship just beneath us.
Fresh oil leaking out of the wreckage.
At the far end of the memorial is a wall listing the names of every person who lost their life in the explosion. It's hard to believe that over a thousand of these men are still entombed in the sunken ship. We visited Pearl Harbor a week before Memorial Day, but I was already in the commemorative spirit. What an honor to be a part of our military - to be in the company of modern day heroes. But I pray that we will never see a day like that one, that we'll never be called to make a sacrifice like they did.

Greg's bachelor party

I've realized that my blog is pretty Kim-centric and I don't often keep you updated on stuff going on in James' life. Recently, he went on an adventure without me so I thought I'd share a few photos with you. Our friend Greg Balzhiser recently moved to Misawa, and is marrying a female pilot he met while stationed in Korea today, actually. In preparation for his nuptuals, his brother-in-law Ryan Worrell planned an adventurous bachelor party for him. While I was at the True Love Waits banquet on the 12th - Greg and five of his close friends out here piled into a couple of vehicles and drove a couple hours south to go rock climbing at the Kuji Sea Cliffs. Greg and Lacey's dad owns a rock climbing gym in northern California so this seemed like a great way to celebrate Greg without going out to a bar and engaging in the usual debaucherous bachelor-party activities. They had originally planned to camp down there over night, but the weather was pretty rainy and miserable. So they climbed in the cold until they were satisfied, then drove home and spent the rest of the evening playing classic video games and "bro-ing out" as they once did back in Del Rio while everyone was single (or at least unmarried, in James' case.) Below are a few pictures of the epic coastline where they went rock climbing!

The Kuji Sea Cliffs
They had to hike/climb all the way down there to reach the climb site.
Rugged landscape which emphasizes the power of mother nature.
Greg's friend Chris Behrens climbing up the cliffs.
The guys enjoying a beer after a long day of climbing.

I'm so glad that so many of James' close friends are now living here in Misawa, and that he had an opportunity to attend Greg's bachelor party, since it was impossible for us to attend his wedding in Switzerland!

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

True Love Waits

We recently finished up our annual True Love Waits series, which culminated in our banquet and ceremony on Saturday, May 12th. True Love Waits is a program that encourages students to study what the Bible has to say about purity and to make a public commitment to abstinence until marriage. This year we dug a lot deeper into the Word and had much more practical, hard-hitting discussions. The students challenged us with a lot of good questions, which certainly kept us on our toes. But we were happy to discuss because it meant that they were really thinking through things that too many of their peers take for granted. I think it was a pretty powerful program and I am so proud of the 17 students who chose to make a public commitment to purity for the first time at our ceremony!

I enjoyed coming up with a cost-effective theme for our banquet at the club. Last year, we decorated everything in black and red with large flower arrangements in the center of each table. That was rather expensive though, and so this year I got creative and borrowed elements from several friends to create a pretty Japanese beach theme. We used mirror tiles, crystal bowls, votives, silvery fabric, sea glass and antique sea floats, sea shells, and large glass wine jugs people bought while stationed in Italy to create beautiful and unique arrangements on each table. I only purchased two flower arrangements to put in the wine jugs, but they were stunning! It was a lot of work but created a magical atmosphere that I think the students appreciated!

The funny Engrish logo the Japanese catering staff created for our event. Haha - very thoughtful, but just not quite right.
Once again, we gave each girl a tiara symbolizing their worth as daughters of the King.
Me with my friends Mike and Pandora Wan, who are a huge help with our youth
Me presenting gifts to one of the high school girls I worked with
All of the girls got hugs and the boys didn't want to be left out... ;^)
Me with all of the young ladies making the pledge
Our Godly men in training and their mentors
We transitioned to the chapel for the sanctuary. Great turn out this year!
The talented Shawn Kelley lead us in worship again!
One by one, the students and their families came up to sign their pledges and receive their rings
We all shed a few tears over these precious family moments


It was a very special event, and I am so thankful to have been a part of it! These students challenge and humble me on a regular basis. So blessed to be a part of this important ministry!